Kamen rider baron Posted December 21, 2014 Report Share Posted December 21, 2014 is it possible? Reply Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
King112 Posted December 21, 2014 Report Share Posted December 21, 2014 hell yes. I'm just friends with a couple of girls. Reply Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Baller97 Posted December 21, 2014 Report Share Posted December 21, 2014 (edited) Well yeah obviously. In my perspective, in order for any friendship to be strong (doesn't matter the gender or race, etc.) there should be support and trust between the friends. Many people just look for friends in order to have fun (to go outside, look cool in front of people, etc.), but if you stop and think.. What do you really need a friend for? I just need friends for support, advice, etc. and obviously for fun but that isn't my primary focus.Different people look at friends and like them for different things, and it all matters in the way of their thinking. Anyways, yes obviously people from the opposite can be friends (but there may be different intentions for it). Edited December 21, 2014 by Baller97 Reply Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Emilia1320 Posted December 21, 2014 Report Share Posted December 21, 2014 Of course. I have many male friends and they are awesome folks. Why should I stop those friendships because of they happen to be opposite gender. Original question is also a bit narriw-eyed because all people are not straight. For example, I'm straight girl and one of my good friends is gay boy. The doesn't come any stupid romantic thoughts.And I have many straight guys as friends too, and it's useful and view-widening for both sides. None of us what's to fall in love and spoil our friendship. 1 Reply Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Emmi Posted December 21, 2014 Report Share Posted December 21, 2014 Absolutely. I have more guys as close friends than I do girls, and I don't see them in a romantic way at all, which is probably a good thing since I have a boyfriend. I'm just friends with them because they're funny, fun to hang out with, and understand what it's like being in a difficult uni major. And they consider me "one of the bros" so there's no other motivations on their part either. This question reminds me of primary school where you're only friends with girls because guys are icky and gross (which is still true sometimes). Reply Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
King112 Posted December 21, 2014 Report Share Posted December 21, 2014 Absolutely. I have more guys as close friends than I do girls, and I don't see them in a romantic way at all, which is probably a good thing since I have a boyfriend. I'm just friends with them because they're funny, fun to hang out with, and understand what it's like being in a difficult uni major. And they consider me "one of the bros" so there's no other motivations on their part either. This question reminds me of primary school where you're only friends with girls because guys are icky and gross (which is still true sometimes). And its exactly the opposite for guys. Girls seemed like crazy icky creatures. then puberty hits, and your world is shaken Reply Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
yii yann Posted January 24, 2015 Report Share Posted January 24, 2015 Just saw this thread! I think guys and girls can totally be just friends, but it is important to note that your friends can be hot too and sometimes the mind just wanders, you know? Are you telling me if you are hanging out with this guy: You wouldn't every now and then think about riding that chocolate train all the way to Willy Wonka's factory, and doing it like the Oompa Loompas do it? Don't lie to yourself. The fact remains though, that we have a certain amount of rationality, and we recognise that this person may not be a match for us, romantically. In other words, guys and girls can be friends, but doesn't mean there can't be bits of appreciation for each others' bums sometimes 3 Reply Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
ShootingStar16 Posted January 24, 2015 Report Share Posted January 24, 2015 yeah I'm friends with a lot of guys Reply Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Emilia1320 Posted January 24, 2015 Report Share Posted January 24, 2015 Just saw this thread! I think guys and girls can totally be just friends, but it is important to note that your friends can be hot too and sometimes the mind just wanders, you know? Are you telling me if you are hanging out with this guy: You wouldn't every now and then think about riding that chocolate train all the way to Willy Wonka's factory, and doing it like the Oompa Loompas do it? Don't lie to yourself. The fact remains though, that we have a certain amount of rationality, and we recognise that this person may not be a match for us, romantically. In other words, guys and girls can be friends, but doesn't mean there can't be bits of appreciation for each others' bums sometimes Well, really depends on a person. I have never found myself thinking that about my friends :/ maybe because I'm not sexual person at all. In fact when I was younger I have tought I might be an asexual, thou that's not exaclty the case either. I just find that there is more important things than sex (by far more important things) and having sex would be too risky, and I value my friendships way beyond the level I would be ready to spoil them with sex so why even think? but I understand your point of view on this 2 Reply Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
FrozenUnicorn Posted February 3, 2015 Report Share Posted February 3, 2015 Just saw this thread! I think guys and girls can totally be just friends, but it is important to note that your friends can be hot too and sometimes the mind just wanders, you know? Are you telling me if you are hanging out with this guy: You wouldn't every now and then think about riding that chocolate train all the way to Willy Wonka's factory, and doing it like the Oompa Loompas do it? Don't lie to yourself. The fact remains though, that we have a certain amount of rationality, and we recognise that this person may not be a match for us, romantically. In other words, guys and girls can be friends, but doesn't mean there can't be bits of appreciation for each others' bums sometimes Accurate and precise! I think guys and girls can definitely be friends. But it depends on the distance that they put between them. If it's too close, you might fall into something that we call love. But if you keep it just somewhere at waving Hi in the hallways and small chit chat during lunch, it'll be just until that (in my opinion). Reply Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
yii yann Posted February 3, 2015 Report Share Posted February 3, 2015 There are now three pictures of Shemar Moore on this page. I now officially declare this the best page on IBSurvival. Reply Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
behaaa Posted February 10, 2015 Report Share Posted February 10, 2015 yes, gender shouldn't stop you from being friends with people Reply Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted February 10, 2015 Report Share Posted February 10, 2015 Yes, maybe not for some human being. Reply Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
susanne Posted February 11, 2015 Report Share Posted February 11, 2015 I do think that guys and girls can just be good friends. It's about recognising that you are great friends to each other and NOTHING MORE. Reply Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
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